Deliberately catching your child's eye and sending a kind, focused smile specifically to them.
I remember reading once that children's evaluation of how physically attractive a person is centers largely around how much that person smiles. Smiling at your children not only makes you prettier in their eyes, but it creates a special bond between you.
Sometimes in the midst of dirty diapers and laundry and busyness smiling does not come naturally, but you can practice it as a discipline. Be intentional about smiling at each of your children often, and it will change your outlook as well as delight your child.
How wise to consciously attempt to do that even during, maybe especially during high-stress times.
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